The Dark Diva Story

The story of how I became The Dark Diva is a key element of what The Dark Diva Rules is all about. Over the years, I’ve had my share of unique experiences, including being a transwoman, which have given me some valuable perspectives on life. And one of the most important views is that you have to be true to who you are. 


For me, that involved a long journey culminating in my inventing “The Dark Diva of Discipline” for a Halloween party several years ago. Armed with a black whip, over-the-knee-boots, black nails and lipstick, a creative menu of shot concoctions, and the line “your pain is my pleasure”, I established a fearless dominatrix persona that made it a most memorable evening. Over time, The Dark Diva persona became increasingly more prevalent as a fun way of engaging with the world. Now it is an essential part of who I am inside, the real me.


In its own way, being a Dark Diva is a means of self-empowerment as you’ll see in The Rules of Dark Divas. It is an attitude that says, “I’m going to be myself and enjoy my life. And, as long as you respect me, I’ll respect you!” It’s also symbolized in our official colors – Black for the dark power of the night, Purple for the royal diva presence and shades of Gray for the sense of mystery that surrounds us.


Like the drinks we create, The Dark Diva Rules is about enjoying the moment your way.


So, join us! Discover and indulge your inner Dark Diva!


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